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Sexual abuse, also referred to as molestation, is the forcing of undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another. When that force is immediate, of short duration, or infrequent, it is called sexual assault. The offender is referred to as a sexual abuser or (oftenpejoratively) molester. The term also covers any behavior by any adult towards a child to stimulate either the adult or child sexually. When the victim is younger than the age of consent, it is referred to as child sexual abuse.
Child sexual abuse is a form of child abuse in which a child is abused for the sexual gratification of an adult or older adolescent. In addition to direct sexual contact, child sexual abuse also occurs when an adult engages in indecent exposer (of the genitals, female nipples, etc.) to a child with intent to gratify their own sexual desires or to intimidate or groom the child, asks or pressures a child to engage in sexual activities, displays pornography to a child, or uses a child to produce child pornography.
Effects of child sexual abuse include guilt and self-blame, flashbacks, nightmares, insomnia, fear of things associated with the abuse (including objects, smells, places, doctor’s visits, etc.), self-esteem issues, sexual dysfunction, chronic pain, addiction, self-injury, suicidal ideation, somatic complaints, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety,other mental illnesses (including borderline personality disorder) propensity to re-victimization in adulthood, and physical injury to the child, among other problems. Victims of child sex abuse are over six times more likely to attempt suicide and eight times more likely to repeatedly attempt suicide. The abusers are also more likely to commit suicide. Much of the harm caused to victims becomes apparent years after the abuse happens.
Approximately 15% to 25% of women and 5% to 15% of men were sexually abused when they were children. Most sexual abuse offenders are acquainted with their victims; approximately 30% are relatives of the child, most often fathers, uncles or cousins; around 60% are other acquaintances such as friends of the family, babysitters, or neighbors; strangers are the offenders in approximately 10% of child sexual abuse cases. Most child sexual abuse is committed by men; women commit approximately 14% of offenses reported against boys and 6% of offenses reported against girls. Most offenders who abuse pre-pubescent children are pedophiles;however, a small percentage do not meet the diagnostic criteria for pedophilia.
Why children are sexually assaulted?
Dr. Mustafa easy specialist children poses a question which is dealt with explanation why children are exposed to sexual abuse?
– Children are always seen as stateless persons resourceful, and so are considered an easy target from the point of view of the aggressor.
– Governs children to others whether they are evil or not depending on the external appearance rather than internal drives.
– Reared children that adults always right and decent to obey their orders.
– Some children are curious to explore their body especially young children, parents may not understand it at the time be unrealized assault experience for this curiosity.
But why children are reluctant to tell parents incident of sexual assault?
Usually retains the aggressor incident assault a secret between him and the child lips child need not disclose Sarhama In this case, may realize the child to the wrong side in the assault is divulging secret in itself and not the assault is assumed that if told to his parents فسيعاقب not maintaining secrecy.
Require disclosure of the Child on the incident use of the words he knows to be obscene previously punishment may be used, and therefore reluctant to declare the incident to his parents for fear of reprimand, which will receive when he uttered those words.
Some children believe that relate to his parents is transferred to others friends and Kaloqarb, and then deliberately hide the incident both Adrkoha bad happened or a secret of their own
Dr Abdullah Alordana – Psychologist -
That the reasons for the silence of children after the rape and not Tbarham parents Palmchkl due to three main reasons:
1. Child rapist has generated a sense of guilt and starts making himself accountable for everything that happened around him Cgill father or teacher or parent also begins to rebuke himself by saying: if I do not go with that man? If I heard the words of my mother? Or things like that.
2. The second reason is the fear the child of the person who assaulted him; In many cases, the offender threatened the child if he has to tell his parents what had happened.
3. Child’s fear of parental reaction especially to the subject of sex is considered “taboo” in the family, in school .. Thus a child believes that even if occur you will not hear one prefers “the law of silence.”
assault and abused and rape of children in Sudan
In 2010 was sentenced to life imprisonment for a man than fifty years of age and after he raped his relative infant, who has not older than only one year and nine months and that area east of the Nile is staying with the family in their home proportion to the absence of the father to another area to provide livelihoods and took advantage of the mother going out to some burdens of life so he heinous his crime, which unfortunately did not stop tears of the girl child.
In the same year ie in 2010, a man lured Iman James after he Bagraha buying candy from a shop area Homestead residence before the transfer to the place of the crime and after he raped her died subsequently and then threw her body in one of the waterways area Shambat has sentenced him to death.
On 6 \ 8 \ 2011 In mid-day of the holy month of Ramadan were kidnapped child Rimaz Azzedine which did not exceed five years of age and after the monster Alkasir raped her she told him that she would tell her father what was it but it brought a nail and the Pegrsh in places different parts of her body and then went to his home and brought a knife stabbed several stab wounds in her stomach that exited her womb dependent on no one but justice has seen the sky was a lookout the eye of God do not sleep and was executed by the cheers and enlarge the audience.
In May of 2011 was sentenced on a pair for the rape of his step-daughter, aged seven years for the second time after the intervention الأجاويد the first time and made the wife tolerance repeat did again, thinking that he will be pardoned again but did not give the wife this time Vtm sentenced sentenced to 15 years and a fine of 500 pounds.
In March of the same year 2011 and in the Criminal Court of Wad الحليو Kassala State brought visitors a relatives family Fterkth mother with her baby infant, who at the age of only six months, and when I attended the mother and found the guest confused and out quickly looked to her daughter to find floating in a pool of blood.
In the same month of the same year was sentenced usurpers and child killers Hanna six-year neighborhood pond Hajj Yusuf, who was Mbrarhama they were not in full and Aehma after alcohol puppeteers raped her and killed her and they left a dead body on the road.
On 12 \ 1 \ 2011 was luring the girl Safaa Adam hay with three years and that was to provoke from the front of her house and then found her body a few meters away from her home in a room reside woman معتوهة where a young man in his twenties of the sons of the Aldoam He works a construction worker in the region has lured the girl purity and raped her and killed her and left her dead body in that room.
And many others of the children who violated their innocence and عذريتهم to satisfy the whims of satanic without thinking perpetrator in the fate of these children or their psychological if not killed and the survivors have reported a scientific study American that 49% of those who Tnolthm study infected homosexuality when they grow up as a result of their exposure to the case sexual abuse in their childhood and be infected with autism and isolation and permanent preoccupation with dreams of vigilance, lack of sleep and frequent nightmares and bad dreams, low academic level, and not to participate in school activities and sports, leakage or escape from the school.
God said in an airtight downloaded the name of God the Merciful (but denied Lord immorality, both obvious and hidden) Allah Almighty.
10-09-2012 The Family and Child Protection Unit has Completed the investigations in sBbhari in , which an Imam of a mosque and f east of the Nile and three other defendants charged with crimes harassment and rape under penalty of articles 54 / c 54 / b of the Children’s Act, and against the backdrop of luring the first defendant to a child did not exceed(01) years studying Balkhaloh which is based on her and harassment inside a room attached to the mosque.
And the other defendants are young as young as the (02) years charges of raping a child after blackmail during knowing crime committed by the first defendant, and confirmed rebounds (last minute) that the authorities which took investigations referred View yesterday to the Court of child Bbhari and identified session to begin proceedings trial within a month and adjudicated.
Dr. Ibrahim Suleiman psycho-social expert explained that the sexual abuse of children inadvertently worked with previously surveillance. The first conditions to be alone with child abuser. To achieve this alone, usually tempt the aggressor child invited to the exercise of a particular activity such as participation in a game, for example, or something like that. And must take into account that most child sexual predators are persons with links to them. Even in cases of sexual harassment of ‘foreigners’ (ie from outside the family), the aggressor usually seeks to create a link with my own child or one of his family before offering to take care of the child or to accompany him to a place very outwardly innocent arena play or public park, for example.
As if the first attempt were very close, as the father or stepfather, or any other relative, and accompanied by assurances directly to the child that it is not fair not faultless, they usually correspond to respond to them. This is because children tend to bow to the authority of adults, especially adults close to them. In such cases, the warning from talking with foreigners becomes useless.
But this confidence «blind» by the child recede when the second attempt was trying to withdraw and retreat, but a conspiracy «secret» and warnings accompanying would have worked work and settled in the same child and will turn harasser matter to the game «Srna small» which should remain between us.
And attempts harassment usually begin Pets harasser to the child or to ask him to touch its members, trying to convince him that it was just a fun game and they Sastraean some candy favored by, for example, as soon as the game ends.
There is, unfortunately, another course does not involve any kind of tenderness. Valtrashwn fiercest, toughest, and wholly deviation tend to use methods of violence and intimidation and harshness to subdue child sexual impulses.
In these cases, the child may exhibit their threats seriously, especially if he has seen manifestations of their violence against their mother or one other family members.
ٌٌُُُDr.Yasir Salim of the Institute for the rights of the child, who said: who rape children often have their relationship could be a teacher or cleric .. If signed rape of a teacher, a teacher, this is something very gravely missed, but the child spends many hours in the school, so to be prevention and the school is child-friendly regulations and controls behavior and protect children from harassment, because they spend a long times, and said that the big problem there is no social scientist , should be to determine the relationship between student and professor, and there slice teachers collaborators, I must ask the Director of Teacher Collaborator signature on the list of behavior, in overseas teacher is not in the office or separated closed alone with the student, and that’s where the protection of the teacher because the new law put the death harassment «20» year even protects the child, and the child is often afraid of strong and teacher here is strong, a feared and intimidated, so the worst kinds of harassment.
known medical specialist psychiatric who preferred to withhold his name, rape as sexual violence and myself committed against a person is not ready sexually. . Especially if a child or a child, knowing that organs sexual immature and incomplete, and violence will be stronger and more on the psychological state, because it is located on the person and affect him the present and future and family, and this is what he considers many specialists ugliest of murder., Rape behavior diagonally which imbalances in Libido that looks at the excessiveness of increasing activity endocrine glands nationality, and the injured sexual active, pushing them to commit rape, and knows perversion several types, including the tendency for children and the tendency of the animal and the tendency of things. and rape of children is an example of the models dangerous deviation, Global statistics indicate that the phenomenon in the growth ..
Most cases, the offender is known by the victims and the family, with a 75% .. And about 30% of defendants were living with the victims, such as father, brother, lover, mother, and the number of criminals rapists belong to the vicinity of the victim Kbakal or neighbors for example, or people were assigned guard temporary child or interest in it, while Statistics indicate that the proportion of strangers 25% The majority of cases are located in marginal and poor neighborhoods, where unemployment and frequent abuse of alcohol .. But that occur amid teachers, these new cases and individual and they do not differ from the others in terms of social, economic or intellectual, but differ in psychosocial development or when they are exposed to troubles of life that outweigh their energy, they look for comfort in their relationships with children can be distinguished between two types Of these, the type of child exploiters sexually, as find miles for children since the beginning of maturity and sexual child becomes is the subject of the sexual aspect to him, even if he is married and has children, The second aspect is his penchant for children as a result of ED, and this kind attracts children to want to stay a kid, but motives are two main reasons to pay the aggressor to the activation of the sexual relationship with children, the first involves a lack of weak mind has, where his mind is a child in a man’s body and be unable to establish a relationship with adults.
.. The reason lies second in the fact that the criminal aggressor on the child was assaulted in childhood did not cared psychologically and family and socially, so he will criminals and victims at the same time, and we find that a child rapist who practiced it sex suffers from several complications psychological and even if that is not violent, they appear in the first years following the attacks do not defer to adulthood, including unrest that is in cases of anxiety and emotion, passing through the cases in anger, depression and nervous breakdown, leading to the separation of personal especially if the child is ready for this disease has the ability for that, one of the most common diseases and more difficult to cure, and the child lives puzzled and comfortable so that it does not know whether it likes it practitioner of his actions or hate him, and whether those acts practiced or not .. So thinking about the number of questions distracted his studies and distract him from collected and can hinder growth, and upon reaching the age of puberty has generated hatred of the perpetrator may lead to revenge killings. At the household level, once discovered the crime of rape turn family life into hell and can lead to family disintegration. Demanded specialist families to protect their children from the possibility of attack approached from the child and candid with him, because fear may expose him to hide Vijfa matter for parents fear of them, with the need to control child’s behavior and must be wary of the child’s relationship with adults is trusted, and child rapist need to treat myself even when it becomes an adult.
United Nations issued Convention on the Rights of the Child and ratified internationally, and in Sudan since 2004 gave the legislature a special law child was amended in 2010, came to this law in Chapter IX Article «45» he is the perpetrator of the offense of hijacking or sell a child or يستحل member or members of the child or any child or grab Atharco sexually abused any child.
The judge confirmed preferred to withhold his name, that the penalty for rape was tightened to prison for twenty years with a fine.
The Dr Ahmad world sees a law professor at the University of Niles, the teacher who leads message is the successor of the Apostles, especially a professor at the foundation stage, they make up the child .. Since the teacher has paternity and authority over the student, so the student feared and feared we find ourselves in front of an environment conducive to seduction, a professor surrounded by reasons beyond his control and the devil close is not married, in front of children provide him with the Magisterium and intimidation, where we find that the phenomenon has spread because financial conditions bad, but these conditions are not protected by law, because the law injunction and a deterrent and we have no problem in the community, the parents say that if we opened a communication will Nchehr sons and always the fear of shame govern them, so hide must be made aware of family law.
Help the environment
Sarah believes Abu sociology expert that the reasons for committing the crime of rape vary from one person to another sometimes occur as a result of psychiatric disability or defect in the upbringing of the offender, and the same way the victim is a direct cause of family through neglect of the child and left him in the street. And increased that most rapes are committed against children who live in homes, schools or terminal in the neighborhood shops and all these reasons combined represent an enabling environment and create an atmosphere contributes to high crime rates. Community directly responsible outbreaks of the phenomenon due to the alarm and silence for fear of scandal and return the offender is a free man unpunished and continue to have done and leads him others to the realm of crime, and one of the reasons we find that this category of bad behavior is accepted by society and become the intervention homes and sit with families and traded with them stories, Gaoy and find their prey at hand.
Her: that a large proportion of the perpetrators of the crime of rape occur revenge from society and hatred due to the exposure to sexual harassment offender at a young age and thus become apparent revenge first.
Finally To combat this phenomenon must increase awareness of the dangers of crime families because the psychological impact will be a stigma attached to family of the perpetrator and the victim for life as it should reject behavior by activating awareness programs in schools and mosques.